You hear things like; “ I don’t get along with women,” “ I prefer being 
friends with males than females ,” or “ I’m don’t have female friends 
because they’re too much drama .”
A lady walks into a room and 
some other ladies in the room start to hate for no reason. They make 
rude remarks, give icy stares that would make the newcomer almost bury 
herself if she has no self-confidence.
Often times, there is that
 one woman who immediately turns into an ice queen upon the very sight 
of you, despite you having done absolutely nothing to wrong her in any 
way.
Unlike men, women will often dislike another woman for no 
logical reason at all. The female folks are quick to judge one another 
and they are less likely to become friends with someone who could be 
perceived as a sexual rival.
A number of ladies will tell you 
that they have survived at least one mean attack from another lady, who 
badmouthed their appearance, dismissed them or made them feel less than a
 human being.
If you’ve never done anything to another woman to 
warrant such cruel treatment from her, then it’s likely that she has 
some serious issues and she’s just taking them out on you. Don’t blame 
yourself or be worried about it, you’ve done nothing wrong.
The funny
 thing is that despite all the drama men create in women’s lives and or 
the amount of hurt or abuse they cause, the women keep loving them. 
They’d rather hate a fellow woman, who has done nothing to them. But why
 is it so, why do women hate each other so much?
1. Jealousy : 
Most
 women, whether they admit it or not, like to have attention focused on 
them. If there’s something taking it away from them, especially another 
woman, then she gets a little intimidated and typically starts to hate. 
Some women would hate you, if they think you’re prettier than them. Your
 mere presence makes them feel like ugly. If your dress looks prettier, 
they would hate. If they are single, they will see you as the 
competition. If they are married, they will see you as the seductive 
temptress trying to steal their man away.
2. Inferiority complex:
 Some ladies start to feel inferior when others are showered compliments
 and they are not. They start to hate the lady who received the 
compliment as if it was her fault. If another lady commands respect and 
they don’t they begin to hate.
3. Pride : 
Some women have a 
little too much pride within themselves and therefore cannot like anyone
 who they perceive is better than them. It’s okay to have a lot of 
self-esteem but a lot of women confuse it with pride.
4. Insecurity:
 Some women are very insecure. They judge other women according to their
 insecurities and what makes them feel better about themselves.
Some 
say, it’s in a woman’s nature to be jealous of another women but a woman
 who knows her true self-worth can never be jealous of another. Not 
every woman has the habit of hating other women.
For women who have 
been attacked by others for no reason, just ignore them and keep being 
your awesome self. There are billions of people walking the surface of 
the earth, why be bothered over those hating you.
For those who 
are in the habit of hating others, stop seeing other women as 
competition. You should not feel threatened by their confidence.
Your
 self-worth should not be measured by another woman’s beauty or 
confidence, so stop looking for reasons to hate every woman you meet.
You
 are beautiful just the way you are. Be proud of who are and your 
appearance. When you see a beautiful lady you should complement her 
rather than hate. You gain nothing by hating.
Life is too short, after all.
 
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