You hear things like; “ I don’t get along with women,” “ I prefer being
friends with males than females ,” or “ I’m don’t have female friends
because they’re too much drama .”
A lady walks into a room and
some other ladies in the room start to hate for no reason. They make
rude remarks, give icy stares that would make the newcomer almost bury
herself if she has no self-confidence.
Often times, there is that
one woman who immediately turns into an ice queen upon the very sight
of you, despite you having done absolutely nothing to wrong her in any
way.
Unlike men, women will often dislike another woman for no
logical reason at all. The female folks are quick to judge one another
and they are less likely to become friends with someone who could be
perceived as a sexual rival.
A number of ladies will tell you
that they have survived at least one mean attack from another lady, who
badmouthed their appearance, dismissed them or made them feel less than a
human being.
If you’ve never done anything to another woman to
warrant such cruel treatment from her, then it’s likely that she has
some serious issues and she’s just taking them out on you. Don’t blame
yourself or be worried about it, you’ve done nothing wrong.
The funny
thing is that despite all the drama men create in women’s lives and or
the amount of hurt or abuse they cause, the women keep loving them.
They’d rather hate a fellow woman, who has done nothing to them. But why
is it so, why do women hate each other so much?
1. Jealousy :
Most
women, whether they admit it or not, like to have attention focused on
them. If there’s something taking it away from them, especially another
woman, then she gets a little intimidated and typically starts to hate.
Some women would hate you, if they think you’re prettier than them. Your
mere presence makes them feel like ugly. If your dress looks prettier,
they would hate. If they are single, they will see you as the
competition. If they are married, they will see you as the seductive
temptress trying to steal their man away.
2. Inferiority complex:
Some ladies start to feel inferior when others are showered compliments
and they are not. They start to hate the lady who received the
compliment as if it was her fault. If another lady commands respect and
they don’t they begin to hate.
3. Pride :
Some women have a
little too much pride within themselves and therefore cannot like anyone
who they perceive is better than them. It’s okay to have a lot of
self-esteem but a lot of women confuse it with pride.
4. Insecurity:
Some women are very insecure. They judge other women according to their
insecurities and what makes them feel better about themselves.
Some
say, it’s in a woman’s nature to be jealous of another women but a woman
who knows her true self-worth can never be jealous of another. Not
every woman has the habit of hating other women.
For women who have
been attacked by others for no reason, just ignore them and keep being
your awesome self. There are billions of people walking the surface of
the earth, why be bothered over those hating you.
For those who
are in the habit of hating others, stop seeing other women as
competition. You should not feel threatened by their confidence.
Your
self-worth should not be measured by another woman’s beauty or
confidence, so stop looking for reasons to hate every woman you meet.
You
are beautiful just the way you are. Be proud of who are and your
appearance. When you see a beautiful lady you should complement her
rather than hate. You gain nothing by hating.
Life is too short, after all.
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